There has to come a point when you ask yourself the following:
Are you unhappy playing most of the time?
Do you make whine posts on the boards?
Do you feel something is owed to you?
Do you log on each night and expect to get something with no effort?
Do you die and feel its a waste of time to get your tombstone?
Do you feel XP loss is too great?
Do you feel XP gain is too slow?
Do you despise the large world and hate having to travel yourself?
--------Now for the positive things to ask yourself
Do you enjoy the thrill of dangerous dungeons? Dying there has a big consequence! So lets concentrate and enjoy the adrenaline rush knowing death could be around the next corner
Do you enjoy levels taking longer so content doesnt speed by? Making the game longer. Which is what a MMORPG is all about. Making a level mean something again.
Do you deal with corpse runs because they put a real penalty in the game? Which in turn makes fighting more intense?
Do you like the huge world and not being instantly teleported from point A. to point B. So you actually feel like you're in a world and traveled some where?
Do you log on and realize my play time is what I make it, I must go out and find my adventure?
Do you think about VG a good deal and cant wait to play?
Do you find your over-all play time fun and makes you happy?
If you answered No to most of the top half and Yes to most of the bottom half then VG is for you!
If the reverse, then perhaps move on. Save people who enjoy the game from being brought down by your negativity.